Healthy Relationship

What Makes An Healthy Relationship

I know you are probably asking yourself, what is an healthy relationship? What makes a relationship healthy? Is my relationship healthy?

Healthy relationship is when you and your partner quarrel and you get to sort out the quarrel easily.

When your arguments easily leads to agreement.

Where the matters of the heart are protected, where secrets are insignificant.

Where burdens are equally carried and solved.

Where you are in a mental balance, you are not afraid to share sacred things with your partner.

Where thoughts and ideas are easily expressed, listened to and respected.

You are in a healthy relationship when you always feel like you matter.

Where you care for each other, where you gain support.

An healthy relationship boosts your confidence, it keeps your mind refreshed, it inspires amazing money worth ideas, It protects your pride.

When you are in an healthy relationship, your wins are celebrated, your failures and sorrows are shared.

A relationship where you never feel lonely is healthy.

You cannot feel lonely when you are in an healthy relationship

You have an healthy relationship when you always want to be in the company of your partner, when their smile brings you joy, when their tears breaks your heart.

An healthy relationship is like eating good food, you are just always looking good.

If you are in a relationship that makes you secured in all aspect of life, where you have that sense of safety, then your relationship is healthy.

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