Imisi’s Voice

  Failure:- Why mankind do not like to step out of their comfort zone The fear of failing is one of the biggest reason man doesn’t like to step out of his comfort zone. Failure is an enemy of mankind yet it isn’t one that can be easily rooted out in fact it could attach itself to your being and become a parasite feeding on your peace, your strength, rending you weak and a ghost of yourself. Failure will tamper with your self esteem illicting a feeling of uselessness. Failure is preeminent in all activities of mankind. It is easier to achieve than success. It just needs one wrong turn of event and boom! It comes knocking on the door.  Failure will always show it sharp claws when you prioritize the wrong things. It ignites fear in the heart of the living and even brings down the strongest of them. Even when we tell ourselves failure has no power over us, deep down in our heart we still harbor the fear of failure. Questions like; what will become of me if this project goes wrong?...

What Makes An Healthy Relationship   I know you are probably asking yourself, what is an healthy relationship? What makes a relationship healthy? Is my relationship healthy? Healthy relationship is when you and your partner quarrel and you get to sort out the quarrel easily. When your arguments easily leads to agreement. Where the matters of the heart are protected, where secrets are insignificant. Where burdens are equally carried and solved. Where you are in a mental balance, you are not afraid to share sacred things with your partner. Where thoughts and ideas are easily expressed, listened to and respected.   You are in a healthy relationship when you always feel like you matter. Where you care for each other, where you gain support.  An healthy relationship boosts your confidence, it keeps your mind refreshed, it inspires amazing money worth ideas, It protects your pride. When you are in an healthy relationship, your wins are celebrated, your failures and sorrows are ...

I have come again ooo! A question has been bugging my mind since forever and I have gotten to a point where I just feel like I should let it go like talk about it.  Honestly, I feel like there are so many reasons that attributes to friends falling out in general and I believe there could be a good fall out but the widely known kind of fallout is the bad fallout with so much drama and gbas gbos (excuse my native dialect).  Good fallout  A good fallout could be because you guys are not in the same space any longer which is understandable. Things change and people change with situations and you feel like the point you are in at the moment, your friend may not understand where you coming from and you move from each other to making other friends. Though sometimes a feeling of betrayal may be pre-eminent on the other end but what makes it a good fallout is when both parties understand that they have to move on. This isn’t just working!  Bad fallout  My main focus toda...

  Communication   Most of us underestimate the power of communication in any relationship be it friends and family or lovers. Communication should be the root or foundation for any healthy relationship especially lovers either dating or marriage. The master key to having an healthy relationship is communication because it ensures proper understanding of both parties. In a place of communication, you are able to bare your heart to your partner without any fear of misunderstanding. When there is any active communication between lovers, talking becomes easy, sharing your troubles and thought will not be a problem. Communication is not just talking or having conversations, it is shedding your feelings, letting your partner into the deepest part of you in every sense. Take sex for example, there is a need for communication between both partner to know what works for both of them without any feeling of insult or them getting hurt that they are not good enough for the other person. W...

THOUGHTS ON EXPERIENCE   Life feels like a vessel or more like a drum that you need to keep filling. In life, you keep filling your drum with experiences. Most experiences curb our lives and how we see life. It sharpens our mind and gives our thoughts perceptions of its own. Then we begin to measure the kind of life we’ve led with the amounts of experiences we have been able to gather. Since we learn from experiences either ours or that of others, we tend to train ourselves in such a way that we don’t have to relieve those experiences again. Thereby, determining the kind of life we choose to live. As easy as it is to say, learning and paying attention to experiences is not an easy fit for all. Some individuals don’t see reasons to pay attention nor bother to learn from experiences. They don’t seem to care and this makes them fall victim of a continuous lifestyle or go through their mistakes again. When we don’t see the need to learn or pay attention to experiences, we tend t...

  Is apology ever enough? Does it really change things? Does it soothe the soul? Does it make the heart lighter?     THOUGHTS ON APOLOGY Apology is usually used to appease an offended heart. It could be in form of actions or words. ‘I am sorry’ is the phrase mostly used to apologize after committing an offense. But the question here is ‘is apology ever enough?’ does the individual whom was offended really let go of the feeling gotten from the offense committed?   All these questions keep swarming my mind and I begin to wonder if accepting an apology is all that is needed to move on and let go of every hard feeling. Apology comes with expressing regret for words said or actions done but is it the action or the word that isn’t enough or the way the regret is being expressed that is the problem? I believe the way an apology is expressed matters and how thoughtful one can be while apologizing for the wrong done is important. Some People will say it isn’t necessar...